Wednesday, April 2, 2008

Rekindling the Romance

Do you like a little romance in your sex life? Are you a flowers, wine-and-dine-me kind of girl? If so, are you waiting for your husband to set the scene and light the candles for you? Unless, you’re one of the few who married her very own Casanova (kudos to you), or are in the very beginning of your relationship – you might be waiting for a long time.

Most men like sex. Correction, most men love sex and don’t need a two-hour candlelit dinner gazing into your eyes to make it happen. They actually don’t need much at all – except you. It’s almost unfair, to both of you, to expect for him to take the lead in the romance department. As much as we would like them to, it’s just not how they think.

If you would like to enjoy a sensual night of soft music, red wine and chocolate covered strawberries with your husband, don’t wish for it or wait for him to surprise you – plan it yourself. No one knows what you like better than you. Put the kids to bed, light some candles and change into something sexy. I guarantee he’ll play along. Eventually, if you do this often enough, he’ll learn what you like and might even take a little more initiative since he knows where it will lead.

Don’t wait on your husband to rekindle the romance in your sex life, this week have fun planning a special night filled with all the romantic pleasures that you enjoy. Taking control of what you want can be exciting, sexy and adventurous.


Smiles & Winks,


Person(Also Known As Mommy) said...

*pathetic sigh* Geez I wish! 6 week old baby+4 year old boy+no babysitter within an 8 hour drive=no personal time for mom and dad.

Someday. Oh yes, someday.

Wifey said...

Yes, hopefully someday soon! It's hard for anyone to be romantic after six weeks! Hang in there - smiles!

Leucantha` said...

I concur on the post and the comment. While I know it isn't "necessary" for the husband to get in the mood, I think the relaxation is important for us ladies and shows him what we like and who knows maybe someday we will get surprised.

Jenny said...

Oh sweetie, anybody who talks about sex on their blog is a friend of mine! Why are ladies so shy about this stuff?

I'm so happy to have found you thru hip mama's place!

Have a great day!

Wifey said...

Hi Jenny! I figured talking about sex would either make me some friends or some enemies - glad you picked friend. Thanks for stopping by... Smiles!