Wednesday, October 1, 2008

Do You Fake The Big O?

It’s Hump Day at Wifey’s House, the one day a week I dish about sex. Last week in my Ask Wifey column I tackled a question about faking orgasms. Gasp! Dare I say it, most women have yelled to the hills when they were less than thrilled at sometime or another.

That leads me to ask, do you fake “The Big O?” Don’t worry, it’s a rhetorical question. You don’t have to answer out loud, although your comments are definitely welcome. My question is more to get you thinking. Are you satisfied with the outcome – no pun intended – when you actually find the time to have sex? Or, are you doing your best “When Harry Met Sally” impersonation?

Statistics show it takes more than intercourse for most women to reach orgasm, and that it doesn’t happen during every sexual encounter. My advice to the woman last week was instead of faking it; find new ways that will truly take you there and then share them with your husband.

I suppose a little enhanced holler every now and then doesn’t hurt anything; but wouldn’t it be more fun for everyone involved if you really mean it? What do you think? Theatrical minds want to know…

Winks & Smiles,
Wifey

6 comments:

capello said...

hells no, no faking. if he wants to get where he's going, he needs to get me where i want to go.

CP said...

Interesting question...

We're also talking about sex this week over at 3giraffes and running 2 anonymous polls.

Monkey Toe Momma said...

LOL @ Capello!

Do I fake? No. I think being honest about what gets my rocks off leads to me actually getting my rocks off.

Monkey Toe Momma said...

Came back to say that I LOVE the Ask Wifey site! Awesome!:)

Wildwood Mama said...

no faking here, faking leads to a loss of intimacy. besides, i agree with monkey toe momma if you fake it then go don't get it!

Wifey said...

So far honesty rules. There's nothing like a woman that knows what she wants! Smiles!

And, Monkey Toe Momma, thanks for the kind words about AskWifey.com.